https://www.focusministries1.org/blog/i-am-feeling-negative There is hope in healing! Wed, 20 Oct 2010 05:51:16 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1 https://www.focusministries1.org/blog/i-am-feeling-negative#comment-115 Wed, 20 Oct 2010 05:51:16 +0000 http://www.focusministries1.org/blog/?p=156#comment-115 I wholeheartedly agree that writing it out is a great way to deal with your negativity. I find it so releasing. I usually write until I have discovered the real reason for my feelings.

]]> https://www.focusministries1.org/blog/i-am-feeling-negative#comment-85 Thu, 12 Aug 2010 03:23:05 +0000 http://www.focusministries1.org/blog/?p=156#comment-85 Sometimes in my life with my husband, i blamed myself for his actions. I tried to make him better, by taking up the slack and making myself better. But he was who he was despite what i did or said. It is not wrong to speak negatively if that negativity is just the truth of your existence. when a man tells a lie, it is a negative thing. Should we choose to hide that for him, we join with him in it. If we tell someone else that he told a lie and the lie is exposed, isnt that the right thing to do? It is not wrong to tell the truth. We all have to face the consequences of our actions and sometimes when we hide a persons actions from others, we hinder that person from gaining victory and growth. I’m not saying we should gossip and slander of course we dont do that, but as this website is confidential and for the purpose of supporting and encouraging i dont believe anything said here would be considered gossip or slander. Furthermore you seem to be very sincere and humble of heart, and i seriously doubt that your negativity is the slimy complaining self loving sort.

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